It has a been another minute since I last blogged. I feel as if mentally I have changed and grown in such a short period of time.All my growth stemmed from my first break up and now I have taken that one phase of my life and ran with my growth has only continued. I look at life as what it is- which is my one and only.I spend less time getting angry and more time embracing situations for what they are.Unfortunately it takes time for us to realize we will never be able to solve every problem we have. Unfortunately as much as we may love someone sometimes we have to allow them opportunity for them to help themselves instead of forcing them to be where we want to be. You never (boldly speaking) will get the full experience of life living in your comfort zone..Even for me today talking to a guy i revert back to my shy oh so shy middle school days.smh - good times.If we are continually getting angry over the same things but want to change , we are continually dating the same kind of prople but want a change..that change is going to have to come from within..with change comes a challenge..of course it may be difficult ..difficult but yet rewarding to step out your comfort zone and challenge yourself-- wouldnt you rather see yourself giving gratitude instead of showing attitude. I have found in life in my personal experiences that the most challenging things tend to be the most rewarding. To stay in your comfort zone and do the common is contentment but life is too short to just be content.. we have too much in us to just be content. Even for me to not get agitated over the small things was a challenge and I still struggle from time to
time .I have to catch myself alot o times and ask is it worth . Reactions are subconscious. They stem
From habit. We have to challenge ourselves to break it and believe that we can actually do better and do more than what we are now. Growth starts from within.One has to realize and want it for themself and from there you grab whatever you want out of life and embrace it.With growth there comes more ability.
Cudos. Don't stop loving. and yes, Change is internal. You should always portray and not project. Portray what your mate should be and don't project your inner self onto the person with whom you're considering spending the rest of your life.
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